• worhui@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    You can feel how you feel and have wants. It’s up to you to respect the other person enough to let them know they need to move on.

    People don’t cheat because of a lack of relationship maintenance. It’s a lack of respect.

    Cheating indicates a lack of respect for the significant other to break things off. If there is a situation where you can’t leave the relationship then you’re not in a position to cheat, because you can’t be good partner for the other person.

    It’s the same as finding a wallet and taking all of the cash. You should try and return the wallet, not take the cash.

    • zzffyfajzkzhnsweqm@sh.itjust.works
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      8 hours ago

      This is the same thing. Maintaining trust, maintaining respect, maintaining spark, maintaining romance etc… All this falls into a category of maintaining relationship. And failure of maintaining each category can lead to disintegration of marriage…