Some mates and I self host mumble. Haven’t touched the server in a while but I remember it being pretty easy to set up.

The voice quality is imo better than discord and it’s way lighter on system resources.

If you want all the other nonsense like screen sharing and chat and what not, I think there are some open source alternatives (to discord) like fosscord or whatever this is called now but I’ve never used them.

I convinced my partner to play to the moon. The sound of crying was how I knew she’d reached the end.

The music still gets me a little bit sometimes.