No what you don’t understand is women are completely powerless and must be protected at all cost. They can’t be responsible for their own decisions. If a (female) adult wants to date another adult then it must be okayed by other people that have nothing to do with the situation. Otherwise everyone needs to step in and protect them.
I think people refer to it as equality.
You have a lot of reasons to by them and it’s absolutely a good purchase. A man needs shoes so get them.
It’s not a treat in anyway, but “treat” yourself and enjoy the purchase without concern. I’ve spent that much on beer in a night and forgotten it because I was pissed. Don’t feel bad about this.