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Cake day: August 22nd, 2023

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  • I tolerate continued existence out of a morbid sense of curiosity.

    That’s beautiful, in it’s own way.

    I felt that way at one point. It led me, eventually, to moments that I later decided mattered very much, to me.

    If I hadn’t had that morbid curiosity, I’m not sure I would have made it to those moments I now cherish.

    Here’s to morbid curiosity!














  • I have to constantly remind myself to treat me like I treat others.

    I do, as well.

    I treat others. I despise myself and have great empathy for others

    I said that to myself before, as well.

    But I discovered my empathy for others became surprisingly more effective after I started an intentional practice of self-empathy.

    but that’s certainly not universal

    Certainly. This is what worked for me, and my relationships.


  • The golden rule does not work. What if I like to be treated like shit?

    Agreed. But it is a good default place to we start.

    The real skill is empathy - to understand how the other person wants to be treated.

    My empathy for others became much more effective after I started practicing empathy for myself.

    It was a bit eye opening, to me, to realize how much impact a practice of self-empathy made in my relationships.