my “friends” would often pretend to like me while talking behind my back and later threatening me to my face, yelling at me, and saying rude things like that i should die because i tried to start a conversation with them. i later found out they were only pretending to like me and they “pitied me so they were just trying to be nice because they’re nice people”.
they also hated that i was autistic and would constantly bully people different like autistic people and furries.
the person who bullied autistic people and furries also tried to get me to pass a ball, got mad when it flew over my head, and in a rage, tried to throw it at my head.
this person constantly goes into rages. they get angry very easily to the point of raging and become very violent, insulting me, threatening me, and trying to hurt me, i believe.
is this average bullying behavior? that’s all, i’m just curious.
That’s definitely bullying behaviour. I don’t know exactly what you’re asking. Bullying can range from ignoring or talking behind someone’s back, to physical assault. They are not average experiences, especially being a repeated event, in normal friendships and relationships.
Several actions included in bullying are also criminal offenses, and needs to be taken way more seriously by the adult world - not minimised, labeled “bullying” and nothing more being done about it. If someone physically assaults someone else, there should always be a police report filed because then social services will be informed if the attacker is too young to be criminally responsible. Even if it just words and threats, or stealing or destroying someone else’s items.
You should stop hanging out with those people, because they clearly aren’t your friends.
if they say you should die because you wanted to talk with them, they are not nice people. you should avoid them for your own benefit. try to find other people if you can, but I would say being alone even is better on a scale. I was in a similar situation for years. and when I thought it ended, it all came back with other people for another few years. if you are a child in school, locked together with them, mentally prepare yourself that they’ll continue bullying you even if you don’t contact them, and that most teachers won’t care. still, you should try getting help if the madness does not stop.
