I’m 20F, he’s 25M. We met in January and have been dating since last month. He’s already met my parents - they love him, and he hangs out at our house all the time. Literally no one has any issues with him, he’s super welcome here. I invited him to sleep over for a few days this week just for fun, but he said he’s not comfortable with it - apparently it feels too “intimate” for him? Like, he’s got this thing about doing private stuff with other people around. I just want him to relax a bit. We’re all adults here, and everyone knows people have private lives. How can I help him feel more okay with it?
Take sex off the table for the first few times of him staying over. he might be more comfortable if he knows theres no expectation of boinking.
Then when he’s more relaxed with the idea of staying over down the road you can reintroduce the idea. don’t pressure tho
Put sex on the floor. Less squeaky