I’m 20F, he’s 25M. We met in January and have been dating since last month. He’s already met my parents - they love him, and he hangs out at our house all the time. Literally no one has any issues with him, he’s super welcome here. I invited him to sleep over for a few days this week just for fun, but he said he’s not comfortable with it - apparently it feels too “intimate” for him? Like, he’s got this thing about doing private stuff with other people around. I just want him to relax a bit. We’re all adults here, and everyone knows people have private lives. How can I help him feel more okay with it?
Nobody wants to get frisky with the parents in the next room. Grow up.
who said they had to get frisky?
Are you seriously asking that about a 20/24 yo couple getting into bed for the entire night? Were you ever that age?
If sex was off the table, I wouldn’t even go through with it. What’s the point? I’d just rather sleep alone, and avoid the entire night of blue balls.
I did that as a 20 yr old. It’s not so crazy to put off sex one night at that age, especially with liberal parents. I think that if my parents had been strict, I may have taken every opportunity I could!
Yikes! People must be falling over to sleep with a charmer like you.
How you doin’?