d&d :)

Ask yourself the same question, but replace trans with cis. Everyone is different,

I read this in Sazed’s accent, from Mistborn. He used to finish sentences with “I think” :)

I have a similar setup, with a public domain hosted by cloudflare. Internally, I use caddy with the DNS feature pointing to the cloudflare using their API and letsencrypt certs.

Something like this: https://webenclave.com/2024/11/07/setting-up-a-secure-local-network-with-caddy-cloudflare-dns-and-lets-encrypt/

I can also share more details, maybe my compose files and caddy setup if you need them.

That’s true. I still do, for my entire *arr stack, but you don’t need to, except for the torrent client.

I’m using Gluetun to connect to my VPN, and only *arr services and qbit use it. Here’s a good example: https://github.com/automation-avenue/arr-gluetun/blob/main/docker-compose.yml

just picked up fallout 4 goty

works beautifully (for me, ~40 fps) with ultra settings @1440p on my thinkpad with igpu :)

Yeah, I still use the latest readarr builds with both ebooks and audiobook, and with rreading-glasses they still work. I am also in the chaptarr discord and got access to the alpha build, which looks really promising. Still rough around the edges, though.

On the phone app you go to Library -> People -> “Add a name” at the top.

I feel you.

Haha, thanks :)

Well, I don’t use any social media (besides Lemmy), so that helps :) There are a couple of Whatsapp group chats where I rarely participate, but I muted those, so I don’t get any alerts.

I do, and not only on Lemmy, but also Whatsapp, Teams, email etc. It’s the fear of screwing up and/or missing out, and a wave of anxiety combs over me when I see a number >0. I’ve been talking with my therapist about it, there are reasons and methods to overcome this…

I grew up in a rough communist regime. I was really young when I overheard my parents talking about how the “supreme leader” was bad and things were starting to boil the next town over. There was nothing on TV or radio. Innocent me just asked my dad like, if he’s that bad, why don’t they just arrest the guy? They didn’t realize I actually understood what they were talking about. I can still remember, to this day, 36 years later, how the soul left my parents’ body in an instant, and we had a looong conversation about how I should never say anything like that ever again. People disappear when they talked like that, and “you don’t want your mum and dad to go away, do you”?

A few months later there was a nation wide uprising, people died, the regime fell, and they actually arrested the guy.

I love reading, but lack the time to do it. I listen to audiobooks when commuting, I would love to get more time to do that. So I recommend that.

What about a color e-reader with some comics or ebooks? Or watch/listen some classes that fit your interests online? Brandon Sanderson has his creative writing classes for free on YouTube, and there are so many more that might interest you…

Client availability is valid. I use an android tv, that’s been easy for me. There are mobile clients for every phone and tablet.

• I don’t know what smart collections are, but I do get automatic collections for franchises (like all “28 x later”) via a plugin. I don’t have playlists, but I guess I never felt the need for one… What would you use them for, binge watching franchises?
• skip intro and credits is a thing, built in since a few versions (used to be a plugin)
• the UI is subjective, and I don’t know any other one… I personally like how it looks, I customized quite a bit, easy to do via CSS.

I’ve never used Plex. What are some of the features that you’re missing in Jellyfin? Genuinely curious.

My “servers” are headless, in the basement, so even if I’m home, it’s still remote :D

It’s always good to read the docs, but I often skip them myself :)

They have this nifty tool called pve8to9 that you could run before upgrading, to check if everything is healthy.

I have a 3 node cluster, so I usually migrate my VMs to a different node and do my maintenance then, with minimal risks.

1200h in PZ and 1000h in Rimworld. This was across many years, but still, I have a job and a family, so I feel like that’s a huge chunk of time.